Years ago my mother told me that her grandmother had a falling out with a relative whose first name was Barbara Youreallyirritatedme. Mom was not certain what the falling out was over and I didn’t think to ask for more specifics of who Barbara Youreallyirritatedme was–other than she was a relative by marriage. When going through to complete the family tree, her grandmother had two relatives by marriage named Barbara Youreallyirrittatedme within a few years of each other in age.
I don’t know to whom Mom was referring.
Ask for clarification.