{"id":24008,"date":"2025-02-01T09:36:38","date_gmt":"2025-02-01T15:36:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/?p=24008"},"modified":"2025-02-01T09:36:38","modified_gmt":"2025-02-01T15:36:38","slug":"which-uncle-was-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/01\/which-uncle-was-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Which Uncle Was It?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24011\" srcset=\"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/uncle-herschel.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The address listed my parents as &#8220;Mr. and Mrs.,&#8221; but the salutation on the postcard addressed them as &#8220;Nephew &amp; Niece &amp; Boys.&#8221; The &#8220;Nephew &amp; Niece&#8221; was an obvious reference to my parents and the &#8220;Boys&#8221; referred to my brother and I. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My Dad had an Uncle Herschel (who was often referred to as &#8220;Hersch&#8221; or &#8220;Neill&#8221;). My Mom had an Uncle Herb. I knew immediately when reading it which uncle had signed the card, but a maternal relative thought that it was written by Herb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if we put aside the fact that the signature looks (at least to me) more like Uncle Hersch than Uncle Herb, there&#8217;s a few clues that make it clear which uncle wrote the card. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The note says &#8220;Please may I return to Illinois.&#8221; In 1981 (when the postcard was stamped) Uncle Herschel was living in Illinois. Uncle Herb had not lived in Illinois since the 1950s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The note also says &#8220;I want to return to loading cattle.&#8221; It was upon reading this that I remembered after Uncle Herschel retired, he moved back to county where he grew up&#8211;in the county seat which was a few miles from where we lived. Until his health declined, he had upon occasion helped my Dad with the livestock&#8211;particularly when they needed to be moved from one location to another. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be careful jumping to conclusions and remember that virtually any sentence or statement can be a clue. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, when he writes what looks like &#8220;solf stuff,&#8221; I think he meant write &#8220;soft stuff.&#8221; And he wasn&#8217;t talking about snow &lt;grin>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The address listed my parents as &#8220;Mr. and Mrs.,&#8221; but the salutation on the postcard addressed them as &#8220;Nephew &amp; Niece &amp; Boys.&#8221; The &#8220;Nephew &amp; Niece&#8221; was an obvious reference to my parents and the &#8220;Boys&#8221; referred to my brother and I. My Dad had an Uncle Herschel (who was often referred to as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":153979,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/153979"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24008"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24008\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}