{"id":5676,"date":"2016-11-05T10:49:26","date_gmt":"2016-11-05T15:49:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/?p=5676"},"modified":"2016-11-05T10:49:26","modified_gmt":"2016-11-05T15:49:26","slug":"weigh-the-cost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/2016\/11\/05\/weigh-the-cost\/","title":{"rendered":"Weigh the Cost"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all have family skeletons and sometimes what we may think of as a minor indiscretion a relative may see as a major tragedy. Before you push too hard with questions or publicize a past incident too much, consider what sort of a response you might get from other family members.<\/p>\n<p>Some stories (particularly if you were personally involved in the event) may\u00a0need to see the light of day, if only for our own healing and mental well-being. But if it happened in 1880 and could jeopardize your relationship with living family members, think twice.<\/p>\n<p>The decision is still yours, but just remember that one has to live with the living.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have family skeletons and sometimes what we may think of as a minor indiscretion a relative may see as a major tragedy. Before you push too hard with questions or publicize a past incident too much, consider what sort of a response you might get from other family members. Some stories (particularly if [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":153978,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/153978"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5676\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogytipoftheday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}