Is it possible that your temporarily “missing” relative headed west for a short time only to return home? I had a relative live in Nebraska in the 1880s just long enough to complete a homestead claim before he returned to Illinois. Another ancestor only spent a year in Nebraska in the 1870s before returning home. And several crossed the pond from Europe to the United States only to permanently return some time later.  
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