Posts in September 21, 2017

When communicating with a new relative whose interest level in genealogy is not quite known, take it slowly. They: might not be able to reply immediately–give them some time might not be quite as interested in the family history as you–believe it or not, it is possible might be put off if you share too many “black sheep” stories immediately–they might think you are only out to share the “family dirt” might not want to read five rambling paragraphs in your first email–get to the point might not respond if you immediately point out errors in their online tree–don’t make them feel like you are proofreading their tree might not be interested in sharing details of their personal life–they may be your fifth cousin, not your “bestie.” Your […]